Monday, April 26, 2010

When is it enough?


When is it enough? When is it time to realize that its gone to far? I would think that after several times of being hurt, used, and manipulated that you would think enough is enough. But how can we help those we love when they are not willing to see it for themselves. When they just think you don't understand and you hate them? That you don't know what its like to love someone. But you have nothing in your heart but their wellbeing and good intentions. When its family, you feel like something has been ripped from your heart, your soul. To sit back and watch and feel so helpless. What do you do? What can you do? Nothing, except tell them how you feel. Its heart wrenching, stomache turning sickening to feel so helpless. I can't imagine what it feels like for a parent when its happening, I couldn't do it or bear to watch. It kills me just being a sibling thinking about it as if it where my own. I hope someday that all of those who witness this among themselves realizes there is a team that looks out for one another, no one gets left behind... its called your family.

1 comment:

Ora said...

As sad as it is it happens all the time and to the most loving of people. We try to give them all that we can, all the love and support that we can but they just can't see it that way. They see it as us trying to hurt them or keep them down or from someone that they love. Depending on how close the relationship is with this person I would say just keep trying and it will all work out. But in some cases it doesn't work that way and you need to just walk away in order to save yourself the heartache that it brings.
<3 u much