When is it enough?

When is it enough? When is it time to realize that its gone to far? I would think that after several times of being hurt, used, and manipulated that you would think enough is enough. But how can we help those we love when they are not willing to see it for themselves. When they just think you don't understand and you hate them? That you don't know what its like to love someone. But you have nothing in your heart but their wellbeing and good intentions. When its family, you feel like something has been ripped from your heart, your soul. To sit back and watch and feel so helpless. What do you do? What can you do? Nothing, except tell them how you feel. Its heart wrenching, stomache turning sickening to feel so helpless. I can't imagine what it feels like for a parent when its happening, I couldn't do it or bear to watch. It kills me just being a sibling thinking about it as if it where my own. I hope someday that all of those who witness this among themselves realizes there is a team that looks out for one another, no one gets left behind... its called your family.